What an ex

What an ex. Really. This girl is a piece of work. When I allowed her to see my page, I had no idea who she was or how she was related to my now boyfriend. Let me tell you. She is the ex fiancee. She is now in a lesbian relationship. She e-stalks me and leaves me weird comments on my page.

Why, you might ask, why don't you just block her access? Well, it would show that it is weird to me. I'd prefer her to think that I don't care. That it really doesn't bug me. It does! Somehow, it's been ingrained in my psyche that I can't show any emotional response to the ex. She is rather crazy and I am better looking (just being honest), but somehow it weirds me out. 

They were together on-and-off for 5 years. They were engaged long ago. He is clearly over her, but I still feel that it's an uncomfortable situation to have someone be so involved in your life who your partner was once so involved with. Too much overlap from the past.

I mean, his friends can't stand her. They love me. They all tell me how controlling she was and how she is so jealous of me. But I don't care. I'd like her to stop commenting on my page, sending me Happy Birthday notes, and writing to my boyfriend to tell him that I'm skinnier and prettier than her. Stop digging for compliments, honey. Have some self respect, I'd like to tell her. I can't though. I have to go on telling him and everyone else that it doesn't bother me. That I just don't care.<

What an ex.